Dear Nina

I have been dating this guy for one year, and out of the blue he suddenly says he doesn’t have time to invest to a committed relationship. I am not one to invest time in people, especially if I am involved with a person that is my f*ck. But this guy got me emotionally, and now after a year I am left feeling totally empty. He stole my heart and made me believe that there is hope in a gay relationship. Most fags just want to get a f*ck for the night. I thought I was like that too, but I love him and want more. What do I do?

Lost in love

Dear Lost,

What the hell are you bitching about? You had a relationship for a year, and you’re a gay man. Both of you deserve a medal. Most fags would consider that a milestone, but apparently this is your first love. A first, love is like fast food – good while it is hot, but when it is cold it can be hard to digest. Really my dear, look at it this way – you had a good run for this show; now it’s time for the next one. I say get pretty and get laid. Don’t waste your time on some guy who apparently isn’t emotionally available. Now get back out there and find your true love. Because this one ain’t it. No man is worth the pain. People can only hurt you if you let them. This Queen says, "Move on and get over it." So many men.... Don’t let this one spoil your party!

Love Nina

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