For LGBTQ travelers seeking a dynamic and inclusive getaway, Pennsylvania is a treasure trove of enriching experiences that celebrate diversity and pride. I recently explored two cities in this state, starting with the vibrant and history City of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia.
Staying in Philly
Arriving at the sophisticated Sofitel Philadelphia at Rittenhouse Square set the tone for my trip. The hotel's sleek ambiance and welcoming atmosphere offer a sanctuary for visitors, providing for a comfortable stay in a good location that’s easy to access the LGBTQ hotspots. The first thing I wanted to do though was have some food, so I walked over to the Oyster House. With its East Coast seafood delights it was a great introduction to the city's culinary scene.
A record-breaking Pride
Philly Pride was happening during my visit so I took part in the march and the festival. I helped carry what is now the largest rainbow Pride flag in America at an incredible 400 feet in length. It was a colourful, joyous, and rebellious day full of impassioned activists along with every part of the LGBTQ+ community. The day included a variety of entertainment as well, from stunning drag performances to a variety of musical talents. There was also no shortage of vendors from independent artists to food trucks with unique and interesting options.
Food from the Community
On Pride day I wanted to eat at LGBTQ-owned businesses so I started with breakfast at The Ground Coffee Plants and Gifts. It’s as charming as it is delicious, with good coffee and a cozy vibe. In the heart of the Gaybourhood I found dinner at Bud & Marilyn’s,which has a retro-chic ambiance and elevated comfort food offerings. It’s nestled in the heart of Philadelphia and has a great atmosphere for post-Pride eats.
More that just Pride
I also wanted to take in some more of the city beyond just the Pride activities so I spent another day in Philly to check out some of the history and shopping. It began on a delicious note with breakfast at Parc, a charming French bistro that feels like a little piece of Paris in the heart of Philly. The combination of French-inspired cuisine, a vibrant atmosphere, and a prime location was a great start for a busy day of exploration.
Directly across from Parc lies Rittenhouse Square, a serene green space nestled in the city. I strolled through its peaceful paths before heading to some of Philadelphia’s most famous historic sites: Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell. Standing where pivotal moments of history unfolded was a pretty profound and moving experience. Especially given everything that’s been happening in that country recently.
For lunch, I couldn’t resist a Philly cheesesteak from Ish Kabibbles. This unassuming spot may be small, but their indulgent sandwiches pack a big punch of flavor, and how can you not have one of these when visiting Philadelphia?
The afternoon was spent wandering through the eclectic shops along South Street, which is a hub of creativity and character. I hopped over to the Philly AIDS Thrift Shop,a non-profit that gives proceeds to organizations fighting HIV/AIDS, and then finished off my visit at JFK Plaza (aka Love Park) where I snapped a photo with the iconic LOVE sculpture.
LGBTQ-friendly Lancaster
From Philadelphia I drove 1.5-hours to the city of Lancasterto finish off my trip to PA with a visit to another smaller city. Arriving at the LancasterArts Hotel felt like stepping into a gallery, with its walls adorned with original artwork and rooms blending historic charm with modern luxury.
I wrapped up the day with dinner at the Belvedere Inn, a warm and inviting spot known for its excellent cuisine. Each dish was beautifully presented and most importantly tasted as good as it looked. It was a pretty great ending to a busy day.
Exploring the county
I had one full day in this area so I started it with a visit to the Lancaster Central Market. It’s the oldest continuously operating farmers market in the United States. Strolling through the market I found all kinds of fresh produce, local goodies, and one-of-a-kind trinkets.
From there I walked over to a street known as Gallery Row to take a look at all the art galleries, featuring the works of both local and international artists. Then I continued over to N. Queen Street which is home to a number of quirky and eclectic shops that give Lancaster an unexpectedly hip and modern vibe. I noticed a number of Pride flags and colours in the shop windows as I walked along.
For lunch, I ventured out into Lancaster County to dine at Miller’s Smorgasbord. This cozy Dutch eatery features an expansive all-you-can-eat buffet loaded with local dishes - comfort food at its finest.
After lunch, I explored the Amish countryside with a horse-drawn carriage ride from Aaron& Jessica’s Buggy Rides. Guided by a local Amish host, the experience offered a fascinating glimpse into a way of life steeped in tradition.
My afternoon wrapped up with some shopping at the Kitchen Kettle Village in the village of... wait for it... Intercourse. This charming collection of shops is filled with unique finds and I couldn’t resist picking up a few Amish-made goodies like jams and cookies. I can confidently say that Intercourse in Pennsylvania did not disappoint.
The day concluded at Zoetropolis Cinema Stillhouse for an interesting History Happy Hour. While sipping on a cocktail from their bar and enjoying a little spread of light bites, I learned about Lancaster’s intriguing Prohibition-era history - a cool mix of entertainment and education to close out a memorable day.
A Welcoming Visit to Pennsylvania
Pennsylvania is able to give LGBTQ travelers a place to visit that’s full of interesting and delicious spots to check out, in what I found to be a safe and inclusive atmosphere. From city sophistication to countryside charm, Pennsylvania's vibrant LGBTQ+ culture shines through in the people and businesses, ensuring that visitors from our community feel welcomed, valued, and celebrated throughout their stay.
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Contributor Josh Rimer |
Locale Pennsylvania |
Topic Travel |

Josh Rimer is a travel writer and content creator who may be best known for his video segments on YouTube and OUTtv, but he was also Mr. Gay Canada 2019. Follow him on Instagram at @JoshRimer.